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6 BDSM Role-Play Scenes for a Femdom and Submissive Man

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In order for a woman to take on a femdom role over her man she must take complete control of power over him, especially as it pertains to the bedroom.  She claims authority and dominance over a submissive man who is wanting that power to be taken from him. 

While some couples choose to share a lifestyle of female domination, where the man’s every waking moment is to please his goddess, other more traditional couples might want to explore this dynamic in a fun BDSM role-play scene and eventual sex date.  Below are some fun and kinky role-play ideas for a couple to play out a scene for a dominant woman and a submissive man.

1. Professional Football Quarterback and Cheerleader Captain

There both the captains of their respective team, so how humiliating would it be if the quarterback's teammates were to walk into the gym to witness the cheerleader, at half his size, dominating the quarterback in a wrestling match.

Moments before his teammates walked in the two captains were engaging in a little innocent flirting that lead to a competitive wrestling match. After all, they are in a state of the art fitness center, and they have an argument to settle; who wins in a wrestling match between a big professional male athlete with no martial arts skills or a petite woman who has a brown belt in Judo.

 

2. Lady Boss

 

The femdom is a highly successful business executive who always gets the deal that she wants.  Working underneath her (no pun intended) is the submissive man who used to be her equal at the company, but through years of underperforming at the company and failing at the game of politics, he has found himself far behind his boss in the life game of achievement.  They came in to the company as equals, but she has come out far and above over him, and there is nothing that he can do but accept defeat.

After yet another huge deal secured for the by company by the lady boss, and another missed opportunity by the submissive man, he is called in to her office for discipline.  She commands him to sit down before verbally abusing him, asking him why is he such a failure.  He can confess his reasons for being such a failure at life.  She will feel no pity.  Eventually she will inform him that she has no choice but to enact physical pain onto him in an attempt to shake the failure out.  Not willing to accept the untraditional punishment, the femdom will be forced out of the lady boss as she takes control and throws him onto the ground and stands on his chest.  From there it is all down-hill for the submissive man as he soon realizes he is dealing with a superior human being in all facets of life.  He is forced to submit to her beauty, intelligence, and power.

3. Instant Reverse Mugging

In desperate need of money, a down and out man is forced to resort to crime.  He decides he will find a small and weak woman to mug on the street and steal whatever jewelry and cash she has on hand.  He spots a woman who surmises will be the perfect victim.  She is well dressed, petite, with hair and makeup nicely put together.  She possesses all of the feminine characteristics for a masculine man to come and overpower her in any way he desires.

He approaches his prey slowly at first.  When he gets within a foot of her he aggressively attacks from behind wrapping one of his arms around her neck while grabbing one of her wrists with his other hand.  She is startled at first as she demands to know “What are you doing?”.  He responds that if she just hands over all cash and valuables to him that he will be on his way.

Her quick response startles him.  “You’ll be on your way when I decide” declares the small but confident woman.  She peels off his arm from around her neck and pulls her held wrist away from his hand.  She turns around and thrusts her knee into his groin.  He immediately falls to his knees.  It is now her that wraps her arm around his neck and pulls back her hand with her free hand to secure a rear naked choke. 

Struggling to breath and in utter shock, the man taps on her thigh as the symbol that he gives up and to let go.  She laughs and says “Oh, now you want me to show you mercy?  I don’t think so.”  She puts him to sleep.  When he awakes he is in a room lying on a bed and cuffed to the bed post.  He has no idea how he got here.  How was this small woman able to lift and carry him anywhere?  He is now a prisoner in the bedroom of a femme fatale.

She reveals herself wearing a pair of tight leather pants and bra, holding a whip and flogger.  She informs him that he is been a very bad boy and is in need of severe punishment.  If he begs long enough she might eventually let him go.

4. Aggressive Police Interrogation

 

Our femdom is a police detective who needs to interrogate a man who is the prime suspect in a large financial scheme where millions have been stolen from the retirement funds of hard-working people.  He is guilty, but determined to keep his mouth shut so to not incriminate himself.  She shows up to his house to ask a few innocent questions.

When he doesn’t give direct answers to her simple questions she decides to take a different method to obtain the information that she is looking for.  She aggressively takes his arms and cuffs his hands behind the back before throwing him onto the ground where she takes off his pants.  She then straddles him before continuing the interrogation.  “You are going to tell me exactly what I want to know”, she whispers in his ear.  Every time she receives an answer to one of her questions that she decides is incorrect, she dishes out pain to the submissive suspect. 

First, she applies clamps on his nipples, the second incorrect answer results in a swift strike with a paddle to his abdominal area, followed by a strike to his groin area with a flogger.  This impact play, along with verbal abuse from the femdom detective, continues until she gets the confession that she is looking for, at which point she will provide him with one last pleasurable experience before dragging him off to jail.

5. Doctor and Nurse Power Reversal

 

A male doctor calls in his female nurse to his office.  Due to hospital management hierarchy, she is his subordinate.  He isn’t happy how she interrupted him while giving advice to a recent patient.  Not only did she interrupt the advice that he was giving, but she preceded to give the complete opposite advice to the patient. 

When asked why she gave opposing advice to his she responded, “Because you were wrong and I was right”.

Furious by her response, he informs her that the doctor’s advice is always the correct advice and that her, as the nurse, should always fall in line with his decision.  She is also informed that due to her recent behavior he will have to discipline her by writing her up which will cause her next paycheck to be cut in half.  Hearing the word “discipline” triggers something in the sexy nurse, instantly transforming her into her femdom persona.

“I’ll be the only one dishing out discipline here”, she seductively responds and pushes the doctor into his chair.  She straddles his lap so that her weight pins him down making him unable to sit back up.  She takes the stethoscope that is situated around his neck and grabs both ends, wrapping one end completely around his neck.  She then begins to pull it so that the stethoscope is starting to restrict his blood flow to his brain.

She whispers in his ear “What were you saying a moment ago, I completely forgot?”.  She continues to dish out pain until the doctor submits to her beauty and newly obtained authority.

6. Damsel in Distress or Sadist Princess?

 

It is medieval times, and throughout the kingdom it is known that the King’s youngest daughter was kidnapped and kept in a tower as a prisoner that is guarded by a viscous dragon.  Many have tried to rescue the beautiful princess, but none have made it back alive.

A hero wannabe sets out to save the damsel in distress.  He sneaks past the dragon and gets to the woman’s jail cell, which to his surprise his quite luxurious.  When he enters the room, the princess is sprawled out across a king size mattress wearing silk lingerie, with what appears to be loose bondage ropes around her body.  She mockingly asks if he has come to save her.

He confirms as he rushes over to untie the bondage ropes and free the princess.  As he is lifting the rope off of her body, he is stunned when the princess throws the loosely knotted rope around him and quickly pulls so to tighten the knot.  He is now the one who is trapped in the bondage rope.  As he tries to wiggle free he looks up to the princess and asks why she is doing this.


“Why not?” is her response.  She slowly walks over to her night stand and grabs a leather whip.  She methodically walks back to the hero to inform him that he should prepare to endure great pain.  Only through begging and flattery will the princess eventually release him, but until then he will be left to her complete control.  He is left to ponder, how on earth did I end up a prisoner of the very princess I came to rescue?

The Fun of Female Domination Role-Play

Many femdom role-play ideas take a familiar theme where the man is the dominant figure and flips the plot around to make the woman the dominant figure with her sidekick submissive man.  This is what makes female domination role-play fun and exciting, as for many couples it is an escape from reality towards a few hours of fantasy.

That is not to say a woman can’t be the dominant to her submissive male partner in real life.  However, for couples who play the traditional roles, having the woman take the lead can be fun and sexy.  If a large man who bench presses 300 pounds is married to a small petite woman who can’t even lift 100 pounds, entering a fantasy where she overpowers him can be a fun reversal of reality.  Choose a fantasy and make it come to life.

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