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How to be a Femme Fatale in the Bedroom Nov 26, 2022

The term femme fatale strikes up different images and ideas for different people.  Commonalities of seductive, dangerous, and beautiful women seem to be shared by most when someone mentions the word femme fatale.  While some men might envision a slender dominatrix wearing tight leather...

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4 Scissor Scenes from Movies to Role-play in the Bedroom Nov 14, 2022

Many men find a shapely pair of feminine legs to be the most attractive part of a woman’s body. Exactly why legs drive some men crazy isn’t fully understood, but for some men it encompasses the combination of seductiveness beauty with deadly power. Being trapped between a strong pair...

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CNC Role-Play Scenes to Try – 7 Ideas Nov 13, 2022

CNC stands for a consensual non-consent and is a BDSM kink involving a dominant and submissive.  In CNC role-play, the submissive wants their limits of consent to be pushed and challenged.  They want their dominant to take complete control over them against their will, as they are left...

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DDLG Role-Play Ideas Nov 09, 2022

DDLG is a type of BDSM play that involves a clear dominant role and submissive role within a couple.  The phrase DDLG stands for “Daddy Dom, Little Girl”, encompassing a caregiver who usually takes on a dominant role, and an immature childish persona who usually takes on the...

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How to Use Hand Cuffs in the bedroom - 9 Ways Nov 04, 2022

Hand cuffs in the bedroom have become the international symbol of kinky sex.  If a new television series wants to show that one of the characters is very sexual, or even into BDSM, all they have to do is show another character finding a pair of furry sex cuffs in the sexually promiscuous...

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What is a Sex Role-Play Set-Up Service? Oct 24, 2022

Sex role-play service companies provide ideas, story-lines, and communication for couples looking to add excitement to their bedroom routine.  They can help lovers learn things about each other that they may not have been previously aware, and through that information reach new levels or...

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Combining Impact Play with Cosplay in the Bedroom Oct 23, 2022

Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves hitting your partner, or being hit by your partner, as a way of seductive foreplay.  Usually partners will partake in impact play because one or both of them are turned on by sadism or masochism.  Sadism is the tendency to derive sexual...

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Venus Thigh Trap Escape Challenge Oct 21, 2022

The Venus thigh trap is an urban slang for a technique involving a woman surprising a man with whom she has having intimate relations, by trapping him with her thighs.  She lures him in close with her beauty and seductiveness, and once he is on top of her ready for a sexual encounter, she...

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Sex Positions to Play with Erotic Asphyxiation Oct 18, 2022

Erotic asphyxiation involves intentionally restricting oxygen and blood flow to the brain in order to enhance your level of sexual arousal.  By restricting oxygen and blood flow levels going to the brain, someone who is being asphyxiated can achieve a feeling of being high, or light headed,...

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Try 7 Fun Ways of Sex Wrestling with your Lover Oct 13, 2022

Every relationship will have its ups and downs, and those downs will undoubtedly be filled with some form of arguing and bickering about things of little importance in the grand scheme of things.  How, as a couple, you rebound from those arguments will determine the success or failure of...

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Basic Instinct Movie Role-Play Sex Oct 11, 2022

Some view the 90s as the golden era of films, and one of those classic movies is 1992’s Basic Instinct starring Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone as Catherine Tramell, in the role that made her a household name.  Catherine Tramell is a seductive and manipulative woman who is the main...

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Reverse Headscissor 69 Challenge Oct 04, 2022

As is the case with most KinkSport games, this competition requires a combination of physical strength and seductive prowess.  The positioning and vulnerability that the two lovers will put themselves in with the Reverse Headscissor 69 Challenge exemplifies the KinkSport definition as much...

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Erotic Sexual Wrestling with Your Partner Oct 01, 2022

Wrestling is likely the oldest sport invented by humans.  While the sport as seen in college and the Olympics has evolved to include exact scoring metrics and completion upon a one second pin, its roots are derived more from a dominant and submission aspect.  Unorganized wrestling is...

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Erotic Leg Push and Tug of War Bedroom Games Sep 28, 2022

Sometimes the best form of foreplay is to bring a little competitive spirt into the bedroom and work up a sweat.  After all, it is no secret that working out causes your body to release endorphins, which in turn reduces stress and improves your sense of well-being.  Participating in...

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Xenia Onatopp Death Thigh Trap Escape Role-Play Sep 27, 2022

Over the years many movies and television shows have portrayed a woman dominating a man in a fight scene by using her powerful legs in a scissor hold.  Scissor holds can come in a variety of forms with the commonality focusing on the woman wrapping her legs around some part of the...

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Headscissor Challenge Game Sep 24, 2022

Women’s legs are extremely sexy to most straight men.  If legs aren’t a man’s favorite part of the woman body, they are certainly a close second or third at most.  While sexy, they can also be seductively and physically dangerous to an unsuspecting man.  While the...

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Young Married Couple's Foray into Kink Sports and Sexy Games Sep 23, 2022

I met my husband in college.  We were both athletes and naturally gravitated towards each other almost immediately.  I was on the women’s volleyball team and he played on the baseball team.  We went to a small division II school, but we were both highly devoted to our...

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KinkSports Ultra-Competitive Sep 12, 2022

The highest and most extreme level of intensity in KinkSports is Kink Ultra-Competitive.  This level won’t be for all - or even most – couples.  Some might decide to take it to the Ultra-Competitive intensity level on occasion when a major dispute between lovers needs to be...

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Kink Sports Semi-Competitive Sep 06, 2022

The intermediate level of intensity for participating in a KinkSport is Kink Semi-Competitive.  In this level you and your partner can play with each other's physical strengths without the physical superior one completely destroying the weaker, at least no at first. 

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Kink Non-Competitive Sep 05, 2022

"Kink Non-Competitive" is the first level of intensity for lovers to share their experience in a KinkSport.  When we talk about the three levels of intensity in KinkSports we are referring to how competitive you and your partner want to be with each other and not how intense the experience...

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