If you’re looking for a gift for your boyfriend or husband that will give you the most bang for your buck, we have some steamy sexy ideas for you to consider.  Many of these gift ideas are things that your man probably doesn’t even know that he wants, but once he gets them, and gets them specificall...

The “B” in BDSM stands for bondage, and this can come in many different varieties.  However, it almost always involves one individual being restrained in some way by another person.  The restrained person is at the mercy of the dominant person who can now do as they please.

One type of bondage is S...

Men are often attracted to a dominatrix for a variety of reasons, including the power dynamic, the fetish element, and the psychological thrill. A dominatrix is a woman who takes on a dominant role in a BDSM encounter or relationship, and many men are drawn to this type of dynamic.

Though often sma...

Imagine applying a smooth and healthy oil all over your lover’s body in anticipation for a great night of foreplay and sex, all while they are rubbing your body down with the oil.  Now understand, that this is just the preparation for the foreplay and not the foreplay itself.  This is the preparatio...

Boudoir photography has become increasingly popular in recent years as a way for women to capture their beauty, sensuality, and confidence in intimate and elegant photos. However, many couples have discovered that boudoir photography can also add a new level of excitement and intimacy to their relat...

Foot podophilia, or foot fetishism, involves having an enhanced sexual interest in the feet of the human body.  For those who don’t have this fetish they might be surprised to learn that a study on the relative prevalence of different fetishes found feet to be the most fetishized part of the body.

Hollywood has a way of sexualizing fight scenes between a man and a woman, emphasizing the woman’s curves as she smoothly defeats her larger and dumber male opponent in easy fashion.  However, sometimes there is nothing sexual about the battle as it is just two people fighting to the bitter death, w...

Allowing your lover to restrict your airflow causes one to hand over a tremendous amount of power to someone else.  It is vitally important to trust your partner who you decide to engage with in breath play.

Giving up that power is what makes breath play so exciting, engaging, and a huge turn on fo...

For couples who wish to engage in BDSM play involving a sex fight or high level of impact play, role-playing the fight scene from the movie Enough (2002) starring Jennifer Lopez can be a fun and exciting way.  The scene involves a woman embarrassing and humiliating a man through pure physical domina...

In order for a woman to take on a femdom role over her man she must take complete control of power over him, especially as it pertains to the bedroom.  She claims authority and dominance over a submissive man who is wanting that power to be taken from him. 

While some couples choose to share a life...

The term femme fatale strikes up different images and ideas for different people.  Commonalities of seductive, dangerous, and beautiful women seem to be shared by most when someone mentions the word femme fatale.  While some men might envision a slender dominatrix wearing tight leather and latex clo...

Many men find a shapely pair of feminine legs to be the most attractive part of a woman’s body. Exactly why legs drive some men crazy isn’t fully understood, but for some men it encompasses the combination of seductiveness beauty with deadly power. Being trapped between a strong pair of feminine thi...

CNC stands for a consensual non-consent and is a BDSM kink involving a dominant and submissive.  In CNC role-play, the submissive wants their limits of consent to be pushed and challenged.  They want their dominant to take complete control over them against their will, as they are left helpless in t...

DDLG is a type of BDSM play that involves a clear dominant role and submissive role within a couple.  The phrase DDLG stands for “Daddy Dom, Little Girl”, encompassing a caregiver who usually takes on a dominant role, and an immature childish persona who usually takes on the submissive role in need ...

Hand cuffs in the bedroom have become the international symbol of kinky sex.  If a new television series wants to show that one of the characters is very sexual, or even into BDSM, all they have to do is show another character finding a pair of furry sex cuffs in the sexually promiscuous character’s...

Sex role-play service companies provide ideas, story-lines, and communication for couples looking to add excitement to their bedroom routine.  They can help lovers learn things about each other that they may not have been previously aware, and through that information reach new levels or pleasure th...

Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves hitting your partner, or being hit by your partner, as a way of seductive foreplay.  Usually partners will partake in impact play because one or both of them are turned on by sadism or masochism.  Sadism is the tendency to derive sexual pleasure from infli...

The Venus thigh trap is an urban slang for a technique involving a woman surprising a man with whom she has having intimate relations, by trapping him with her thighs.  She lures him in close with her beauty and seductiveness, and once he is on top of her ready for a sexual encounter, she wraps her ...

Erotic asphyxiation involves intentionally restricting oxygen and blood flow to the brain in order to enhance your level of sexual arousal.  By restricting oxygen and blood flow levels going to the brain, someone who is being asphyxiated can achieve a feeling of being high, or light headed, causing ...

Every relationship will have its ups and downs, and those downs will undoubtedly be filled with some form of arguing and bickering about things of little importance in the grand scheme of things.  How, as a couple, you rebound from those arguments will determine the success or failure of your longev...